One of the fundraisers for my church’s men’s group is selling Palisade peaches in August. The peaches are delicious, but I’ve always been hesitant to buy because they sell them by the crate, and WOW that is a lot of peaches!
However, it doesn’t matter that I avoid buying the peaches, because the men’s group likes to give a box of peaches to each of us on staff! So there I was that day, holding a ginormous box full of ripe, juicy peaches, knowing we still had some frozen from last year, wondering what to do.
But something was different this year. Instead of asking, “How are Terra and I going to eat all these peaches?” I asked, “How are all these peaches going to get used?”
As it turns out, there are a lot of folks in our community who appreciate a free peach (or half crate of them.) We handed them out at the library one day, and then I brought the remaining 7 home to bake in a cobbler. And then we brought the cobbler to share with some friends that evening.
This shouldn’t have been so mind-blowing for me. I’ve been learning this lesson over and over for decades at this point.
I recognize that my worst moments of spiraling anxiety are incredibly self-centered. In contrast, the moments when I feel calm and empowered are times when I can look past myself and really value other people.
It’s embarrassing to admit how often I have to re-learn the simple lesson that practicing compassion (or just thinking about other people) helps me at least as much as it helps anybody else. Maybe if I write a public blog post about it, the lesson will finally take. 😉
Whether the challenge is not enough resources or an overwhelming resource, the solution is to connect with people. We don’t have to do this life thing alone.
In my mind, I will be financially free when “I always have enough to share.” While I don’t usually imagine peaches as the currency, I am grateful for the chance to embody that dream for a couple days.
The men’s group is now taking orders for a second delivery of peaches. Next time I receive a box, whether that’s next month or next year, I will relish the opportunity to share some joy with my neighbors!
Local friends, want to buy some peaches (or pears) and support church ministries? Order here: https://secure.myvanco.com/L-ZECN/campaign/C-13V14